MARRYING MERRY

I AM LED TO BELIEVE THAT THE FULFILLMENT OF AN ADULT LIFE IS BY WAY OF GETTING A PARTNER OR A COMPANION IN LIFE - FOREVER...BY MARRIAGE. I THINK SO.

This something to compel me to jump out without an apparent motivation since i am not yet married, worst i am not yet engaged in a serious relationship to at least ease my burden of thinking depressingly that i havent met anyone to get me marrying her.

I watched one show in a television and it stunned me to know a couple with less means to augment family income is able to raise six children without disturbing sickness. Unbelievably the woman is on her way to deliver the seventh child without regularly consulting any health professional. Amazing. The couple depend solely on the daily income they get from selling anything like vegetables and other foodstuffs in the public market. All the children are healthy and the eldest is about to finish high school in a free public school.

Many concerned friends are openning up my minds (so to speak) to the reality. Using their random postulate there is no reason why i cant get myself married. I have a stable job to support anyone who would tie with me for life. More importantly i am a certified bachelor with sane thinking and a good face to boot ,huh! With these few little qualifications they are asking me to get married. Soon!

Well i knew some good families with all amenities in life are not that successful in their marriage. Some resulted in staying apart to the dismay of their friends, family members and especially children who consequently suffer the outcome of divorce. Some people are mostly interested to live in autonomy for them to fully exercise their whole freedom.

It's easy to tell that one is getting married. But it's hard to imagine that you are living with someone promising her your commitment to live in sickness or in health, in joy or in agony, in misery or in bliss etc..

Marriage ends one's bachelor life. Oh how nice to reminisce the happiness you once felt with ur lady love whom you thought you want to live with.. you know...It's so sweet , as they say, to say the sweetest words to the person you love first. It's like you are floating in cloud nine literally. Her hypnoticing scent and soft hands just make the world a blissful place to live.


Any one who got married sucessfully confessed that it's like an ultimate accomplished mission in life. There is harmony, orderly and all the love and understanding that bind up the family as a core unit of the society.

(Sigh..)I hope i could have my family someday. A happy family where i could proudly rest and tell to my children that i have been a successful person. Let us hope people would realize the negative context they place on believing about marriage where the sanctity of twogetherness are not upheld.